Writen by : SereneuL
We cannot choose our own parents and it seems that we cannot choose whom we can fall in love with either.
Most people don’t have exact answers when asked if why they love someone. “I love him/her because I love him/her.” “I love him/her not because of his /her physical appearance but because he/ she is whom my heart beats for.”
We have unexplainable and different answers but that’s when we know that we are loving someone truthfully. Love knows no boundaries so it has no factors set when choosing someone whom we can love.
But some people seem not to agree. When it comes to falling in love, some factors matter, like age. There are two sides of a coin here:
In falling in love, age does matter.
In falling in love, age doesn’t matter.
Despite our modern society, people still think the traditional way, that age is a factor to consider when loving someone. Couples having wide age gaps are being criticized and talked about by the community. A man falling in love with a woman much older than him and the other way around, having 20 years or more age gap is unusual to people. Some would say, “She could even be your mother/ he could even be your father. Find someone of your age.” But who are they to judge and dictate whom you can love? They are not you, after all.
We certainly know of couples who have wide age gaps but are happy with each other despite other people opposing their love. In showbiz, to name a few, we have couples Robin Padilla and Mariel Rodriguez, Hayden Kho and Vicky Belo, and Vic Sotto and Pauline Luna.
There are some reasons why a wide age gap is not an obstacle in love:
Fatherly/ Motherly Figure
There are people who seek fatherly/ motherly affection and they find it from their partners. Loving and caring partners are easy to be loved and you will feel the assurance of being secured.
Same preferences and Interests
Two people, despite their age gap, can be bind by their same preferences and interests. Since they have many things in common, their tendency of building a harmonious relationship is high.
Love
Love is the strongest feeling that ties a couple together. It is the wonderful thing that is alive in a great relationship.
With these reasons, age is disregarded and is a less matter to consider when falling in love. We all have the right to fall in love and be loved. Others cannot judge or dictate whom we can fall in love with so long as we are happy and assured that we are loved in return.
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